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Healing and Empowering Your True Self

Are you a woman seeking to unlock your self-worth and rediscover your sexuality? Are you yearning to break free from the constraints that hold you back and embrace a life filled with confidence and empowerment? 

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I understand where you are...

You are looking for an affirming psychologist that gives you space to show up as the full Black woman you are.

You want to advocate for yourself better in your relationships and at work without feeling ashamed or burdened. 

As a high-achieving Black woman, you know you want more out of life but you need support in redefining what a healthy pleasure filled life looks like for you.

You want a therapist who personally understands the impact of the harmful systems of racism, sexism, heteropatriarchy, capitalism and more on your mental health.

My Mission

My mission is to create a brave  and non-judgmental space where you can explore your desires, heal emotional wounds, and embrace your authentic self. Whether you're dealing with past trauma, navigating relationship challenges, or simply seeking to reignite your sexual spark, I am dedicated to supporting you on your journey to empowerment and sexual healing.

💖 Cultivate Self-Love and Acceptance 🌈
Release shame and guilt surrounding your desires. Learn to love and accept every part of yourself, fostering a deep sense of self-worth and embracing the beauty of your unique journey. 💗

🌹 Rediscover Pleasure and Sensuality 🌟
Reclaim your sensual side and reignite the spark within. Experience pleasure on your terms, as you nurture your desires and explore the depths of your own sensuality. 🔥

🌟 Step into a Life of Freedom and Liberation 🦋
Break free from the constraints of societal norms and expectations. Embrace a life filled with confidence, freedom, and a deep connection to your true desires. Embrace your journey to ultimate liberation. 🌈

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The SEXFIDENCE Framework


S - Self-Reflection: Engage in deep self-reflection to understand your desires, values, and boundaries. Explore your own needs and gain clarity on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment. 💭💕

E - Embracing Authenticity: 🌟 Embrace your authentic self and let go of societal expectations or judgments. Cultivate self-acceptance and celebrate your unique journey to reclaim your sexuality. 🌈✨

X - Exploring Desires: 🔥 Dive deep into your desires and explore what truly ignites your passion. Whether it's through solo exploration or open communication with a partner, take the time to understand and honor your desires. 🔍🌺


F - Fearless Communication: 🗣️ Develop fearless communication skills to express your needs, boundaries, and desires. Practice open and honest conversations, creating a safe space to discuss your sexual preferences and foster deeper connections. 🚀💬


I - Inner Healing: 💖 Prioritize inner healing and address any past traumas or negative experiences that may hinder your sexual confidence. My expertise and experience will help you to heal and grow from within. 🌟🌷


D - Developing Boundaries: 🚧 Set clear and healthy boundaries to protect your emotional and physical well-being. Learn to say no without guilt, and establish boundaries that honor your comfort levels and respect your personal space. 🛡️🔒


E - Erotic Empowerment: 💃 Embrace your erotic self and tap into your sensual energy. Explore various forms of self-expression, such as dance, sensual movement, or creative outlets, to unlock your erotic power and build confidence. 🔥💫


N - Nurturing Self-Care: 🌿 Prioritize self-care rituals that nourish your mind, body, and soul. Engage in activities that promote relaxation, self-love, and self-compassion, ensuring that you are taking care of yourself holistically. 🌸🌞


C - Confidence Boosting: 🌟 Engage in confidence-boosting practices such as positive affirmations, visualization exercises, or seeking inspiration from role models who embody sexual confidence. Surround yourself with empowering influences to elevate your own confidence. 💪🔥


E - Embracing Pleasure: 💫 Embrace pleasure as a fundamental aspect of your sexuality. Explore different forms of pleasure and sensuality, allowing yourself to indulge in experiences that bring joy, excitement, and fulfillment. 🌟😌


💥 Unlock Your SEXFIDENCE: Embrace Your Sexually Confident Self Today! 💥

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My Services

Individual Therapy:

  • Partner with me to bring greater alignment between your authentic self and how you show up in your most important relationships.

  • Licensed in Texas; Based in Houston

  • My PsyPact credential allows me to work with you via teletherapy/virtual sessions in

AL - AZ - AR - CO - CT - DE - DC - FL - GA - ID - IL - IN - KS - KY - ME - MD - MI - MN - MO - NE - NV - NH - NJ - NC - ND - OH - OK - PA - RI - SC - TN - TX - UT - VA - WA - WV - WI - WY

  • Private pay only ( I do not accept any insurance.)

  • Book a consultation today to learn more!

Couples Therapy:

  • Every couple has challenging times connecting, being in alignment, or experiencing the type of intimacy you truly desire. Partner with me to get out of the rut you're currently in. I promise you significant change is more possible than you may think!

  • Licensed in Texas; Based in Houston

  • My PsyPact credential allows me to work with you via teletherapy/virtual sessions in

AL - AZ - AR - CO - CT - DE - DC - FL - GA - ID - IL - IN - KS - KY - ME - MD - MI - MN - MO - NE - NV - NH - NJ - NC - ND - OH - OK - PA - RI - SC - TN - TX - UT - VA - WA - WV - WI - WY​

  • Private pay only (I do not accept any insurance.)

  • Book a consultation today to learn more!

Sex Self-Confidence Coaching (one-on-one)

  • Perhaps mostly everything in your life is fully in alignment except your sex life. You just haven't fully figured out how you want to express who you are as a sexual being, how to communicate your desires to your partners, or even resolve some long-standing issues that keep getting in the way of creating the type of intimacy you crave.

  • If this sounds like you, you might be a great coaching client! With some direct guidance and affirming accountability from me, we can help you center pleasure in your life more fully and effortlessly.

  • Based in Texas but serving clients worldwide via virtual sessions.

Issues & Clients I Work With 

Mental Health Issues

  • Depression

  • Anxiety

  • Racial Stress

  • Relational Concerns

  • Poor Boundaries

  • Trauma Recovery

  • Mother/Father Wound

  • Intergenerational Trauma

  • Perfectionism

  • Spiritual issues

  • Soft Life/Strong Black Woman

  • Grief

  • Identity Issues

  • Gender Issues

  • LGBTQIA+ concerns

  • Parenting/Co-Parenting Stress

Sexual Issues

  • Lack of Self Confidence

  • Sexual Shame

  • Intimacy Issues

  • Sexual Trauma Recovery

  • Desire Discrepancy

  • Difficulty Orgasming

  • Low Sex Drive

  • Out of Control Sexual Behavior

  • Trouble Initiating Sex

  • Trouble communicating your needs

  • Affair recovery

  • Sexless marriage

  • Performance Issues

  • Opening the Relationship

Types of Clients

  • High-achieving Black Women

  • Black Men

  • Black/Interracial Couples

  • Indigenous

  • People of Color

  • LGBTQIA+/Queer folx

  • Gender Non-Conforming/Non-Binary

  • African/Alternative Spiritual Systems

  • Kinky/BDSM

  • Polyamorous

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